I believe the wisest thing one woman told me was that she was notalways in love with her husband. Your relationship with anyone willhave the highs and lows – not as exciting as when you first met andfell in love – but deeper as you share experiences and life. Duringthe lows, try doing a little something extra for him and make sureyou get out for a date night regularly. If you keep up your end,particularly when it is difficult for him and acknowledge when hedoes the same for you, then it means you have each other’s back.Get periodic counseling or attend a marriage weekend to catch upwith one another. A long marriage is incredibly fulfilling.