AnswerThe period and process of going through a divorce, no matter how “done” you are with the ex, is very emotional and tiring.It is hard to maintain a relationship since there are naturally times when you are unavailable.You may want to set aside some quiet time (weekend?) to discuss what he needs (time alone? down time?) and what you need (time when he is not wrapped up, fun, laughter?).Unfortunately, we cannot fix people’s lives, their moods, or their happiness, so just have to go with the flow as well as you can without being caught up in the divorce.He is still married until it comes through, and needs to be careful if he has kids and if it will become an issue at divorce.