yes divorce is a sin. from the pit of freaking Hell.
You should not put the children in that situation.
I agree there’s a lot of torment that goes into the lives of thechildren because of their parents’ divorce.
Yet, also the Bible clearly states that unless it is caused bysexual immorality, divorce is considered adultery, which of coursemakes it a sin. Both remarriage and marrying a divorced personwould in consequence be considered a sin too because the divorcedperson is considered an adulterer/adulteress.
I got this from Matthew 5:32
“But I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except onthe ground of sexual immorality, makes her commit adultery, andwhoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.”
For the Lord, the God of Israel says “I hate divorce and maritalseparation and him who covers his garment (his wife )with violence.
Therefore keep a watch upon your spirit that you can be sure thatthe force of His will is at work with you in the process.