There are some grammatical errors in your presentation. First of all an arranged Marriage can take different forms and contexts in differing cultures. It is not necessarily a forced-draft terms as-is or else sort of event- it can be if there is an unauthorized sexual union and the (bomb) is armed- this is popularily called a shot-gun wedding. Different strokes for different folks is an old slogan as is the Chan postulate of The motto of the wise is- Beware of Surprises. An arranged marriage might proffer the same elements of surprise- not necessarily the Pearl Harbor variety, as say, a blind date. There is, of course an element of forethought, but the actual circumstances vary in different cultures. any sort of mass-production or ( Assembly-line) wedding should be forestalled or at the very least toned down. Love is not a car factory.